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Dialogue is collaborative: two or more sides
work together toward common understanding
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Debate is oppositional: two sides oppose each
other and attempt to prove each other wrong
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In dialogue finding common ground is the goal
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In debate winning is the goal
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In dialogue one listens to the other side(s) in
order to understand, find meaning, and find
agreement
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In debate one listens to the other side in order to
find flaws and to counter its arguments
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Dialogue enlarges and possibly changes a
participant's point of view
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Debate affirms a participant's own point of view
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Dialogue complicates positions and issues
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Debate simplifies positions and issues
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Dialogue reveals assumptions for reevaluation
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Debate defends assumptions as truth
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Dialogue causes introspection on one's own
position
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Debate causes critique of the other position
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It is acceptable to change one's position
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It is a sign of weakness and defeat to change one's position
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Dialogue is flexible in nature
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Debate is rigid in nature
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Dialogue stresses the skill of synthesis
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Debate stresses the skill of analysis
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Dialogue opens the possibility of reaching a
better solution than either of the original
solutions
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Debate defends one's own position as the best
solution and excludes other solutions
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Dialogue strives for multiplicity in perspective
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Debate strives for singularity in perspective
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Dialogue affirms the relationship between the
participants through collaboration
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Debate affirms one's own strength in opposition
to other points of view
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Dialogue creates an open-minded attitude: an
openness to being wrong and to change
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Debate creates a closed-minded attitude, a
determination to be right
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In dialogue one submits one's best thinking,
knowing that other peoples' reflections will help
improve it rather than destroy it
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In debate one submits one's best thinking and
defends it against challenges to show that it is
right
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Dialogue calls for temporarily suspending one's
beliefs
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Debate calls for investing wholeheartedly in
one's beliefs
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In dialogue one searches for basic agreements
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In debate one searches for glaring differences
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In dialogue one searches for strengths in the
other position
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In debate one searches for flaws and
weaknesses in the other position
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Dialogue involves a real concern for the other
person and seeks to not alienate or offend
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Debate involves a countering of the other
position without focusing on feelings or
relationship and often belittles or deprecates the
other position
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Dialogue assumes that many people have pieces
of the answer and that together they can put
them into a workable answer
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Debate assumes that there is a right answer and
that someone has it
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Dialogue encourages de-polarization of an issue
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Debate encourages polarization of an issue
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In dialogue everyone is part of the solution to the
problem
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In debate one person or viewpoint wins over the
other
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Dialogue affirms the idea of people learning from
each other
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Debate affirms the idea of people learning
individually in competition with others
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Dialogue remains open-ended
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Debate implies a conclusion
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